Life changes when you hit 30


So if you’re new around these parts you would not know that it was my birthday last week. I spoke about it alot, alot, alot. But, funny enough, I didn’t do the same ol’ big celebration thing (as I normally do) because that would mean that I’m still the same inside, but I feel different. Very different. I don’t know about all you other 30-somethings, but I could feel the change in season the year that I turned 30 years old. (Which was not this year, btw)

One could say that the “changes” in my life has a lot to do with the addition of 1 husband, 1 step son, 1 teenager and 1 daughter. But it’s more than that. I mean, it’s not a popular way to think and you won’t find it on a Drake swag note or anything, but when you end your 20s, you kinda say goodbye to your youth… your wonder years, if I may. You grow up. You grow OLDER.

For most, when you turn 30 years old, you acquire an amazing super power (some choose not to indulge in this super power, mind you). It’s called SENSIBILITY. You apply it to your everyday life and find yourself concerned with things that probably did not come up when you were younger. Things like: are you banking with the right financial institution and have you bought enough life cover. You take out insurance and pay school fees and make sure your drivers license is renewed. You try to eat healthy and value your parents more and notice when a young child says “please” and “thank you” because it’s so rare nowadays.

You also find yourself being super picky about who you surround yourself with. Life gets busy and you’re not the “stay awake until 3am” business anymore, so idly sitting around with people who you do not have a relationship with becomes less appealing.

You become so aware of time… the amount of hours you get to sleep and the amount of leave days you’ve accumulated at work and how long it will take you to drive to your kid’s school, from home, when your whole household woke up 20 minutes late. You learn to savor the fun moments, because it’s a break away from the norm. And you reach a point where you either long for the things you were passionate about in your late teens/twenties OR you find yourself eagerly pursuing them.

I think that 30 is where you realize that life is short and you have to make the most of it! It’s a season of reaping whatever you’ve sown in your 20s and for some, that could be a really scary harvest to reap. For the longest time I thought that I had to survive my 30s… because when you’re 40, it’s that much easier to accept the fact that you’re not 20 anymore (hahaha)… But hey, I don’t want to SURVIVE my 30s… I want to THRIVE in my 30s! How about you?

So that’s where I’m at… regroup, regroup, reeeggrrroooouppp! Because life is too short to wonder about what could have been. Unless you’re Adele. Then you could just write a song about it and become a millionaire.

2 Comments on Life changes when you hit 30

  1. Shazia
    March 25, 2016 at 09:35 (1 year ago)

    Love it!!!

  2. Chevone
    March 25, 2016 at 17:35 (1 year ago)

    The thirties, the best years for sensibility and embracing life with all that you have! Enjoy it!


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